xin mei cousin and her family is not celebrating christmas with us....a bit disappointing to hear that...since we have always celebrated our birthdays and christmas together on 25 dec every year....in fact, i think that it is very disappointing coz i have always put all other commitments aside...even when my ex bf complained that i never spend christmas with him. this shows how much i value my family ties when i always spend the most important day of my life with them....haiz...and best part= she didn't tell me that she is not celebrating with us even though we have already planned to hold a christmas party...her mum didn't say anything about going overseas too...haiz...i wonder what will happen if i tell my mum tomorrow...i think that my xiao yi doesn't know this too....since she msged everyone that we are celebrating 3 birthdays + christmas together...i mean...shouldn't they tell us that they are not celebrating with us when we are planning for my cousin's birthday as well? we are organizing a birthday party for xiang xiang cousin as well...but they didn't tell us anything even when they already know that xiao yi (aunt) is already preparing.....are they going to tell us after we have already bought the present, cake and cooked everything? haiz....i only found out after i asked her today....haiz....celebrating christmas together shows the family unity...and now...haiz...i think i would not be so disappointed if she told me personally that she and her family is not celebrating with us....where did the sense of responsibility go? can anyone understand how i feel? just imagine someone organizing a birthday party for the birthday boy and yet, everyone else will be going except the birthday boy and his family....which is xiang xiang in this case...