i'm confused because i don't know whether to judge people by their cover....here's a comparison of me and him...

him:
looks fierce
looks dao
looks beng
doesn't look like a good guy....but....
likes jazz or classical music
doesn't club or go pub
quite a gentleman
good temper
patient
caring
brings umbrella
seldom go shopping
doesn't have a very good sense of direction in shopping centres
likes watching romance movies? it's true...but omg...hmmmm
always try to copy what i eat and do....e.g i 'sa jiao' to him coz i wanna win at poker and then he tried to 'sa jiao' to me in the same manner when he wants to meet me that day....then i told him...please don't make me puke....very disgusting when you 'sa jiao'...coz it's really very disgusting...

me:
likes hip hop/r & b
club or pub once in a blue moon
normal temper....but easy to flare up sometimes
impatient
sometimes caring sometimes not
doesn't bring umbrella
always go shopping
better sense of direction in shopping centres as compared to him...
likes watching thriller, adventure and horror

isn't it so confusing? i'm quite against his looks but sometimes i close my eyes and i think that his character is quite okay...he told me that his friends always ask whether we are together and they think that i'm playing hard to get...but i told him i'm not playing hard to get...just that i wanna understand him better and that it's very confusing because of his looks....he is quite upset because i criticise his looks (though i never say that he is ugly...he is not ugly...just normal)....but i think he must be quite upset as i always say his looks are misleading....i don't know...maybe i really judge people by their cover? but u cannot blame me for misunderstanding him right? because he really doesn't look like a good guy....